In a world that constantly tries to shape us , where everyone is juggling with trends , expectations trying to keep up , the norms become the hallmark, whether you truly fit with them or not . And the hardest thing is by following this trend we often forget, who we are and our true self .But the thing is , is it really that hard to be yourself ? Easier said than done , it sounds simple” just be yourself “ whatever happens , always remember who you are .
It sounds simple , right ? but let’s be honest,it’s not always that easy , the societal pressure and that never-ending race happening in our mind .
But here is the truth : Our peace of mind is our real flex 💯.Here is the question that arises :
Are we different?
💫Yes, we are, we all are different.
Is this something to bother about?
💫No, I don't think so, I mean, let's take an example, we are 2 siblings, suppose we both have the same likes and dislikes, my brother likes proper diet food, and what if ( exception ) I had the same taste?
My mom would never get to know about Maggie ( noodles ). And if that is the case, just think about what happened to those street foods. We are the reason for the change, and change is good, it creates possibilities, taste plus employment as well but no one appreciates us. We are one of the reasons street vendors are like "Let's do some experiments with food "People going to like it, because different is special... Jokes apart ....
Our experiences and perception towards life are what makes us different from others. Maybe, what is important for you is not even the thing for others, and that's okay, You can't or you shouldn't force others to feel exactly what you feel about a particular thing..
Just because others don't appreciate or admire what you do or you like that doesn't mean you have bad taste or you don't know things, it's just they are not familiar with these.
Back then, there were limited professions, you could be an engineer, doctor, or teacher, Apart from these, were not considered as reputed as they were but with time norms have changed, and you can make your career on anything you like, chef, writer, blogger, content writer anything. Having a different perception about something is what makes you unique.
FaQs
Q1: What does it really mean to embrace my true self?
A: It means letting yourself be seen exactly as you are—your joys, your flaws, your dreams, and even your fears—without putting on a mask to fit in. It’s about giving yourself permission to exist fully and authentically.
Q2: Why is this so important for my well-being?
A: When you honor your true self, you stop fighting against who you are. This reduces inner tension, boosts self-confidence, and allows you to experience life more deeply. Your relationships, your work, even your daily moments feel more aligned and fulfilling.
Q3: How can I begin embracing myself?
A: Start gently:
Reflect without judgment: Notice what makes you feel alive and what drains you.
Practice self-compassion: Treat yourself with the same kindness you’d offer a friend.
Set gentle boundaries: It’s okay to say no to things that don’t resonate with your true self.
Seek connection: Surround yourself with people who accept and uplift the real you.
Q4: Will this be hard?
A: It can be. Letting go of expectations—both yours and others’—takes courage. You might feel resistance, fear, or guilt at first. That’s normal. Remember, growth is often uncomfortable before it feels liberating.
Q5: How does embracing myself affect my relationships?
A: When you show up authentically, you attract people who genuinely resonate with you. Relationships become deeper, more honest, and more nourishing because they’re built on who you truly are, not who you pretend to be.
Q6: Can being authentic help me in my career or goals?
A: Absolutely. When you embrace your unique strengths and perspectives, you bring confidence and creativity to your work. People notice authenticity, and it often opens doors that wouldn’t have appeared if you were trying to fit a mold.
Reminder : you weren’t born to blend — you were born to stand out .
For more insights read my article on self-care-self-love
💫Differences help us in growth
and growth is good,
And good comes with change
so change is good.
So celebrate your differences... Different is special.... And special is unique.
(Feel free to comment, we all are different).
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