Have you ever been in a room full of people, still felt left out or too nervous to speak ? Butterflies in the stomach?
Yes !
Don't be surprised, you are not the only one who felt that way , we all had that feeling at some point of time.
Either it's in school or college , when teacher asked us question or when we hold the mic for the very first time or had to present presentation, that nervousness, sensation and fear all are there for accompany.
Confidence, It 's not something you owe by birth , but it's a skill you learn throughout the life.
Here are some tips that helped me in personal as well as professional level
Without taking much time let's get into it.
What Makes You Confident
Self-awareness – Understanding your strengths, weaknesses, values, and passions helps you make choices aligned with your true self.
Taking action – Confidence grows when you try, even if you’re uncertain. Small consistent steps matter more than perfection.
Embracing failures – Mistakes are lessons, not reflections of your worth. Each challenge you face strengthens your inner trust.
Self-compassion – Speaking kindly to yourself, forgiving mistakes, and celebrating progress nurtures a confident mindset.
Authenticity – Being true to yourself, setting boundaries, and expressing your thoughts honestly builds trust in your own voice.
Resilience – Facing fears, overcoming obstacles, and bouncing back from setbacks reinforces your sense of capability.
Continuous learning – Curiosity and growth keep you adaptable, prepared, and confident in your abilities.
Gratitude and reflection – Acknowledging your achievements, big or small, reminds you of your progress and inner strength.
Remember: Confidence isn’t about being perfect or always sure—it’s about trusting yourself, showing up as you are, and embracing life’s uncertainties with courage.
How to be confident :
💫 Practice positive Self talk
Not only self talk , but the positive one .
Words are way powerful, the way you speak to yourself has an great impact on your personality
Affirmations, (the real game changer )
Replace negative self tatk with positive affirmations
Say loudly ," I am enough"
"I am Confident"
Remember - Thoughts become reality , speak what's best for you.
💫Step out of your Comfort zone
Comfort zone - a space where you feel untouched ,safe and in control where risk is minimal.you sets a routine for yourself no disturbance at all .
Take risk , do things that challenges you ,
Either it's speak in front of people or give presentation in school .
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💫Travel alone : meet new people , introduce yourself to them , learn about them .
💫Learn new skil : you remain updated , and confident .
💫 Celebrate progess : Even it's a little progess , celebrate it . Be your own cheerleader .self love
💫Be kind - if you face setbacks, remember it's a journey .
not a destination, , even if you take a small step .
💫 Surround yourself with supportive people
Surrounding matters , what type of people are in your group , optimistic one , who uplift you or the one who is pessimistic , complains about everything,choose wisely .your envyironment shapes your mindset.
💫 Embrace failure/mistakes as an learning opportunity mistakes is directly proportional to growth
💫Know where to stopBe balanced
Why confidence matters :
💫Self - acceptance : you value yourself, trust your gut feeling and make better choices.Be yourself
💫Improves communication: : you speak what's in your mind , without hesitation or shyness, you present your thoughts clearly and firmly.
💫Boosts relationship: when you speak your heart out people trust you.
It prevents unnecessary assumptions and conflicts.
💫 Improves body language - the way you walk , stand and move can tell how confident you are .
-A right posture - self assurance/ confident
Slouching - insecurity
-Maintain Eye contact
-Facial expression
- Gestures
- voice & tone
💫Open opportunities : From personal to professional, confidence helps you grow .
How confidence helps in self-growth -
💫Build resilience
💫You feel independent
💫 You try things with a positive mindset
💫Expand opportunities
💫 Strengthen relationship
Habits of Confident people :
💫 They practice gratitude
💫 Stay consistent
💫 Learn from mistake mistakes, the learning guide
💫 They avoid comparison
💫 Celebrate small wins
💫they set boundaries .
Confidence is directly proportional to growth.
Confidence fuels growth—the more you have, the further you go.”
FAQs
Iam 30 years old , can I be confident?
A big yes , it's all on you , it has nothing to do with age ... remember consistency is the key .
What are the signs of under Confident person ?
They avoid eye contact
Fear of speaking up
Seeks constant validations
How can I be confident in classroom ?
Practice speaking ( in front of the mirror)
Prepare study material in advance
Learn from past mistakes
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